A few days ago
chefddr

What can I do to help my son get an IEP in school?

My son is in 6th grade and I have been trying to get him help in school since 4th grade. He is ADD/ODD/Bi-Polar and he just can not grasp what he is learning, he says it all goes around in his head and he just can’t understand it. I am working now on getting him a Mobile Therapist for his health issues, but he is already failing in school. I have spoken with his guidance counselor and we are working on getting him a tutor as well. There is a special School in NY that I want to send him to, and the administrator said that it would help sooo much if he could get an IEP, together with letters from his Dr’s which would help him to get into the special school. He also said that the SCHOOL DISTRICT NOT OUR INSURANCE will be responsible for paying for the expenses for him to go to the school and that could be why they are so against helping my son.

I won’t even begin to comment on where the “no child left behind” program has not helped my son at all, and has in fact, hurt him!

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A few days ago
cindy

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I teach special education and agree whole heartedly with your assessment of “No child left behind”! I can’t imagine why you can’t get your son help. He should easily qualify for 504. This is a Federal program that allows/requires accommodations in the classrooms. If he has not been referred to Special Education, it would be a good idea for you to do this at this time. Parents CAN refer their child to SPED. Your child should have a full battery of achievement tests, hearing, vision, and a psychological test. Classroom observations should also be included when the committee makes the decision to place or not. However, even if he does not place in SPED he can and should still qualify for 504.
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A few days ago
julie m
If you can document to the school that your son has a learning disability, then they should be able to write him an IEP.

What you have to be willing to do, if that’s what it takes, is pay to get your son evaluated by an accredited institution that can document it, such as a university or a psychiatrist that is certified in it. It may be a few hundred dollars. You can complain and moan that the school system should pay for it, but you are his parent, and it is more important that you get him in a position where he can learn and thrive, not spend valuable time arguing with the school system. Don’t add to his discouragement by letting this get dragged out in the public school process.

The goverment always will fail you, so don’t wait for them! Ask you guidance counselor what options are available to him if you can get his disabilities diagnosed and certified. The school system doesn’t anticipate you carrying the cost of the testing, which in the big scheme of things is what they are trying to avoid as well as the additional therapies. Be willing to give a little to get to your end goal. Don’t let a few hundred dollars get in the way. And above all, do not wait for the government to get in there and fix it for you!

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A few days ago
ad
Well, first of all, in order to quailfy a student on to be on an IEP there has to be an eligibility completed. This can be MR (mental retardation), ASD (autism spectrum disorder), ED (emotionally disturbed), OI (orthopedic impairment), and multiple other eligibilities. I’m thinking the closest for your soon would be ED if he is diagnosed as Bipolar from a medical professional.

Second, once a child has a diagnosis from the doctor for Bipolar, to get the rest of the ED eligilbity there has to be an impact on his learning at school. He has to be performing below his age level and his cognitive level.

I hope this is helpful. I am an Occupational Therapist that works with special ed kiddos in the elementary schools.

Also, he could qualify to be on a 504 plan if he does not meet the standards for an IEP. Talk to your school principal if need be.

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A few days ago
EC Expert
You need to be a strong advocate. Insist that the school do a complete evaluation and at the Committee on Special Education meeting fight for what you want. Try and find out if there is an advocacy group in your area that would send someone with you. Call Nassau- Suffolk Law Services at (516) 292-8100 and ask for information on agencies that might be able to help in your part of the state. Make sure you are given written information on how to file an appeal and if you are not happy, appeal.
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A few days ago
tree dancer
Tell your local school you want your son evaluated. Here in ohio it is a law. My son is addha/biopoplar and has a a iep for eight yrs-and he is still failing. I am so disapointed, tutors help some. My son dont cooperate much
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A few days ago
Anonymous
i dont know why r u asking yahoo
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