Let’s say this sweet yet shy child has a parent who is overly critical or parents who are just plain disinterested. Let’s also say that since this child is shy and lacks self-esteem, they are picked on by bullies at school, and then there are always a few teachers who find shy child to be easy targets for their unhappinesses and stress. This child most likely will become an angry, self-destructive person who could care less what harm they do to themselves. I’m writing this to say to parents – don’t be so hard on your kids when they fail. Be strict, of course. But don’t be so darn critical and irritable with them! Teachers- you need to know that your kindnesses OR unkindnesses last a life time, and can make or break your student’s spirit. If a child seems very shy and withdrawn, there is most likely something going on at home. Even if it isn’t physcial abuse, it could very well be verbal abuse. This child needs your kindness and encouragement so much.