A few days ago
>>mr.GIG<<

School Help..?

I’m nervous, feel like throwing up…

School starts in about 2 weeks, and i pretty much dont have any friends. I use to have 4 of them, but they changed schools all went different ways, I cant go back i dont know what to do….HELP ME PLEASE…I cant make friends w/ other people…I dont know….I feel like dropping out…

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A few days ago
PARTTIMEROCKER

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anyway,your situation often happen to the new guy at school.you just need an adaptation!just be open minded
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A few days ago
devyl gyrl
First of all, taking dropping out from the equation, and do not even let that be a considerable option.

Then, take a deep breath. Most people hate change, and most of us come through it just fine despite our reservations. I understand what it is like to go to school without friends in the beginning: I was a military brat (my dad was military), so I changed schools often. Sometimes, in the middle of the year, and sometimes, during the summer so that I would start the school year off with other “newbies”.

While you may not be comfortable with socializing and developing friendships, I think you should take this as an opportunity to re-invent who you are and what you want to be in this time of change. Do you want the same kind of friends as you had before, or do you want to change your mission in life and become someone new? You’ll have a lot more freedom without having friends at the beginning, because you can make your own choices without being influenced by what they want to do first.

When you start school, smile often, look people in the eye, and don’t shy away from them unnecessarily. It is amazing how often a smile will encourage someone to approach YOU so that you do not even have to make the first move!

Eye contact is a way of telling people that you are interested in conversation, even if your other mannerisms do not convey this fact. While you may not make any new best friends your first day, I am sure you will find that within a week or two, you have found some people that you are developing new friendships with.

Good luck!

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A few days ago
vegas
i definitely feel what you’re going through. what you need to do is just relax. remember that school is just one part of your life, and you probably won’t even talk to anyone you went to school with once you graduate. be yourself, even if you think that people won’t like it, and you might make friends faster than you think. don’t be shy, the worst you can do is look stupid, and everyone forgets about that sooner than you do.

i’m guessing you’re in high school. you’ve got nothing to worry about. if you don’t feel like you can make friends, then don’t worry about it. chances are, you have more friends than you think. try not to push away people who talk to you… i do that a lot because i think they’re just going to make fun of me or something. high school is such a weird time for most people, and you feel awkward all the time, but everyone else feels just as weird as you do, no matter what kind of personality you think they have!

relax! you’ll be fine.

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A few days ago
♥SmileNowCryLater♥
Please don’t listen to anybody else because I feel the same way but me & my mom had a talk about this & now I’m fine!

When I was growing up E.C.E-6th grade I had tons of friends until…I switched schools in 4th didn’t have any,made new friend in 5th & in 6th.In 6th all my friends turned against ME!!!

My best & only friend I had in 4th-6th just left to D.C & I didn’t know what to do!

I don’t know anybody at school but I don’t care do you know why???

Well…because school is to learn although it is important to have friends but you have to get your education!!!

When I go to school on the 22nd I’m going to walk in there proud & happy for what I’ve achieved in school.

At lunch I’m going to introduce myself to people & make MY OWN FRIENDS!

So don’t worry,be happy & positive! ^_^

Hope this helps & take my advice I’m sure it will help.♥

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A few days ago
amaLyn
oh no.. don’t drop out just because i don’t hv any friends.. try to be friendly with them.. smile a little, talk a little n try to be their friends…u NEED to hv friend at school.. at least 1..
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A few days ago
Anonymous
Don’t worry! Try to find new friends!
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A few days ago
koolguy4139
DON’T DROP OUT!!! DO YOU WANT TO WORK AT TACO BELL, SPITTING IN PEOPLE’S FOOD, FOR $5.99 AND GETTING $0.20 RAISES?
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A few days ago
`| ..bheiibhiie love.. |
don’t drop out..it’s not that hard making new friends..
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