I made a big Mistake?
For the pills/locker trashing I got court for both of those and had to do community service and pay resitution. But I put my mom through so much this year I just wanna get some advice on what I should do. I feel so bad but Its almost to late. My moms about to send me away for good and Emancipate me. Someone please give me advice
tell your mom how you feel. tell her you want to be better and tell her how sorry you are. sit down with her and have a nice long chat.
help her do chores around the house and if you can handle it (along with school), get a job to show her you can be responsible. school comes BEFORE the job though.
think positively. it’s never too late to do something meaningful, especially for someone that’s obviously so important to you.
1. stay with your close “friends” that are leading you down a destructive path (which you’ve basically said yourself) whilst you’ll have your friends your saying that you’d loose your family.
2. unless your friends are also willing to make a change so that you can make amends with your family, you’d have to let them go. at the end of the day your mother is your true family.
The big problem is that if you stay with your friends they will more than likely continue as they are, and even if you don’t want to they will ask you to do things, or come up with acts like the lockers which will only lead to bad things. Even if you turn round and say no you won’t do it, they will probably try and find a way to bully or manipulate you into doing it.
Personally it sounds like you could really do with a fresh start somewhere, so that the influence of your friends wouldn’t be so much, but it is your choice at the end of the day.
either give up your friends or give up your true family?
Kudos for realizing you made a mistake and wanting to do something about it.
Good luck = ]
People are going to do what they are going to do, and at your age, there’s not much a parent can do to stop you if you really want to destroy yourself. You are only going to get help if you allow yourself to get help.
You’re scared right now because your mom’s at the point she can’t or doesn’t want to deal with you anymore. Congratulations, takes a lot to get most parents to that point.
My eldest daughter ended up dropping out of school, living with a drug addict, and after moving five times in seven months and accidentally shooting herself in the leg, finally realized that what appeared to be “fun” at first was actually a lifestyle that was unhealthy, and that her “friends” really didn’t care about her. So she came home, cleaned up her act, and just graduated HS with honors.
Only you can fix this with your mom, and you’re going to have to fix yourself first and figure out why you want to be uneducated and potentially in jail instead of just going to school and finding something appropriate to do with your free time.
I read your update. You said “The friends I do bad stuff with are the closest friends I will ever have.”
Trust me, life is all about change… you may feel this way now, but in ten years the chances of you still being friends is quite low. People change, they move, they die…
Have faith in yourself and find healthier relationships. Your friends are causing you grief right now. Scary to tell them you don’t want to be like them, but if you really want to change there really is no other way. It’s like an alcoholic thinking they can still go to the bar and not drink.
You need to commit to better choices and surrounding yourself with people who don’t make good choices is not going to help you.
your sorry,and you want to do better. Then you need to talk to your mom and ask her for advice. It`s not going to be easy.
The next hard thing will be to stay away from the friends that
like getting into trouble.You may need to hang out with different people.Stay away from the pills. It`s obvious that they`re not helping you.
It`s not going to be easy but you can do it.
The rewards you will get are worth it and you will learn to
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