A few days ago
Rahoo K

i just graduated from high school….HELP?

I just recently graduated from high school…its an all boys school; and ive known some of the boys for 6 yrs……we just go back to school only to do exams…i feel empty inside, not that im sensetive or anything…its just that school was my home away from home…i have had a few problems at home…and school was like my 2nd refuge…the teachers were great too…caring and everything…we even had a daytime assambly and a night time dinner…

but im scared of the real world….seriously.

any suggestions.

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A few days ago
spiritbx

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the real world can be as fun, you just need to open up a bit, make new friends, if you make new ones, you’re not betraying your old ones, because i bet they would want you to get new friends.

Be yourself,talk to people, maybe even get a girlfriend, its all up to you.

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A few days ago
byron s
What are you asking help for?

What kind of help are you searching or looking for from those that do not even know you or your situation and circumstances?

Sit back… relax… and put things into perspective…

(Look at you and your situation and circumstances from a larger perspective/view.)

You have Lot’s of time….

Life appears very long for those seeking the path and it is very short for those that have a narrow path…

No matter what others may say… we all know that we are born alone and die alone… so everyone, not just you… are ALWAYS and I mean ALWAYS – ALONE….

Very often it’s whether you “feel” LONELY or not that makes the difference. And that lonely may seem like a scary thing, but you know it’s not.

Look at yourself from the outside… from far away… then you will see all those that have “shared” their “alone” with you and kept you from being lonely. You probably did the same for them too. You will also see that there are many others that you have not “shared” with and have not “shared” with you…

Good time to start looking at how you plan to “share” yourself with others at home, at work, at play and even in having a family.

Good time to “share” your thoughts with your parents (if you have). After all they did bring you this far.

Then ask the right questions to the right people… not us on the internet…

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A few days ago
Chara
Well young man.Congratulations on completing one journey of the “growing up” process.I am sad to hear that you are feeling this way.

I am in University and last year most of my friends left and I still have one more year to go to complete my degree.I found that I was pretty lonely this semester but I found joy and happiness in doing helpful things for people.

You can always pray about it.I’ve found this very helpful.You should not be scared of the “real world”.I believe that the “real world” will be tthere with you no matter what stage of life you are in.You are living in the “now” and this now is your “real world” at this time in your life.

Have faith and may peace,joy and love follow you wherever you go.Smile and cheer up 🙂 You’re gonna make it through!

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A few days ago
DrIG
You will eventually get rid of the fright. For some it takes longer that others. Kids often cry when they are left by their mother and go to school the first time. Often the mother stays out of sight and watches to see that everything is OK. Sooner tor later it is.

Graduating from high school is the same. At first you are bewildered and you may see your former teachers, Eventually you will wean your way from them and take the rightful place in society which you are both ready for and deserve.

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A few days ago
Anonymous
Join the Army/Navy/Marines. Choose one. I think you must have a High School Diploma. Don’t lose your transcripts of high school, thats more proof than a printed diploma.
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A few days ago
the Politics of Pikachu
If there is a particular college a lot of your friends went to, apply there.
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A few days ago
Jet
you cannot just hide from the real world like that
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A few days ago
Anonymous
try to find a private college that will help.
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