High school just started… and I hate it. Advice or help?
First day; bus came 20 minutes early. Mom had to take me and some friends. Never got a tour of the school, so I was late to every class. Hardly any of my friends (let alone; people I know) are in my classes. My 6th hour is made up COMPLETELY of upper-class girls, who I know for sure I will not be getting along with. They ignore me anyway, and are actually quite rude. Came home from first day with homework and tears.
Second day; made the bus. Still got lost in the campus and don’t talk much to anyone. Lots of homework and still VERY intimidated by the upper-class-men.
Two days in, and I’m dreading to return. I’m afraid each day is going to be a pattern… which I’m definantly not use to either. Basically; I want to be my old self again.
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Don’t let the upper classmen get to you. It doesn’t matter what grade you’re in, there will always be rude people and not all upper classmen are like that. Just be yourself, but speak up when you feel there is a need to. Let them get the message that just because you’re a freshman doesn’t mean you can be pushed around or anything. Just ignore their rude comments.
With time, you’ll make new friends. You won’t be a loner, it’s kind of hard to. You can join a team or club to meet more people.
The homework load will range from a reasonable to large amount. High school are the crucial years because colleges look at your grades. So work hard, it’ll certainly pay off. Don’t stress too much though because that never helps.
I felt the same way when I entered high school. I didn’t know anybody in any of my classes, i was overwhelmed by homework, and nobody seemed really friendly. But once you start working on group projects and discussions, you’ll be able to meet new people who might turn out to be pretty amazing. Time will tell. I hope this helps, but if you feel really uncomfortable, talking to your parents and/or guidance counselor about switching classes or doing anything else to help the problem might be a good idea.
Good luck!
I know you’re having a bad time right now, but honestly, the only thing that can be said is it DOES get better. PLEASE don’t do anything drastic. And also, in a situation like yours, you might decide not to do work and just give up in school. Don’t. That was the worst thing I did in freshman year. I had to repeat 9th grade english in 10th grade because I did that. I felt so sorry for myself that I didn’t care.
About your 6th hour class, are you sure you’re supposed to be in that class? If it’s advanced, and you don’t like it, I’d suggest switching to a lower class. You’ll get a much better grade and be with people your age. Also, the fact that the bus is so early is unacceptable. Your bus is supposed to come, at most, 10 minutes early. If that keeps happening tell your mom to call transportation and explain the situation.
Getting lost happens to everyone. As I repeatedly tell, on my first day freshman year, my friends and I were searching for the gym for ten minutes, only to realize the gym was downstairs and we were still upstairs. You’ll know your way around completely in about two weeks, and teachers are sympathetic the first week or so, so don’t worry about it.
If you need to talk, feel free to email me. =]
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I read your edit, really sucks that you can’t switch out. Maybe you can have your parents call the school? Sometimes they’re more responsive to parents. Also, I know my school is like that in the beginning of the year because of so many schedule changes, but after taht they get to less important class changes.
However, I’d suggest staying in that class, it’s not about the upperclassmen, it’s about the kids you’re going to actually know how to take care of when you grow up! Believe me, that class will help you so much if you want kids, which I suppose you do since you’re in it. =]
i didnt talk to anyone for like my first 2 weeks of high school. i sat alone at lunch and everything.
but eventually through your classes youll get to know some people, some youll like ad some you wont. just try to be friendly to people around you and stuff. hopefully theyll start talking to you and make that better.
and dont mind the rude girls, theyre worthless to worry about.
and for getting lost, if youve got time after school or have your mom or someon pick you up a bit late one day and walk around a bit. get to know the place yourself. it should help.
hope everything turns out well!
hope this helps 🙂
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