can somebody give advice on how to make friends next year in high school??
DONT SAY BE YOURSELF!!
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-Usually sometime within your first week, your teachers will make you pair up with someone in class and make you two interview each other. Then you and your partner will have to introduce each other to the class. It’s a great time to know everyone in the classroom. Through the interview, you will inevitably develop rapport with your partner, and you just might make a best friend immediately.
-ask one of your classmates a question about a current assignment. You will not only be able to get your answer, but also you will break the ice with the other classmate. Later you can talk about anything with him/her.
-if you are waiting in the cafeteria line, try to strike up a conversation with the person behind or in front of you. Make a funny comment about the size of the line, or ask him/her about the quality of the food.
-you might also have to work in groups. Great way to meet multiple people simultaneously.
-join a team, whether it’s a sports team or debate team. You will make friends easily because you will all share same interests.
-join high school club. You will meet plenty of people there.
-Finally, DO NOT EVER BE QUIET, OR ELSE PEOPLE WILL JUDGE YOU AS ARROGANT/SNOBBISH AND/OR WEAK (in which case you will get picked on by other kids), even if in reality you are shy. Trust me, once you gain a reputation, it sticks with you for your entire 4 years of high school. Once word gets out that you are quiet, people you have never met will refuse to talk to you because of your “reputation” as an arrogant person.
Relax most people find friends in high school. You may be friends with the person next to your locker. If you are not athletic there is always band and book club and yearbook and so much more.
I moved to a new state when I was 17 and found out I was pregnant a few weeks after getting there. I felt lost at first but even being pregnant in a new high school I did not put myself out there but people just “came” into my life and 8 months later I had 5 new friends in my delivery room when my son was born.
Just be yourself. You have a new chance at being you. Try something new or just be yourself. I am sure if you like who you are alot of others will like you too.
Good luck I wish I was in you shoes again.
p.s I hate it when people say be your self too.
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