yea….you know what….it actually is possible….EVERYBODY has a mellow side, there are just different things that bring out the mellow in us…for me its music…I love music, it soothes me and calms me down….try out some of your favorite music, and if you have any slow jams….then, jam them!slow jams do the trick sometimes too….try not to focus too much on the outside world, when you do this it’ll bring other emotions to you….have some ME time, focus on yourself and just let the world do what its doing and just let it pass you up……daydream…..picture the things you want to do or the things you wish you were doing or could have done…picture your dreams! Mellowing out when your with others shouldnt be so hard….and alone its even easier….while your with others just go into a deep state of thought, just relax, again focus on yourself and on your thoughts….mellow….not hard….try it, good luck!

I did it I just started ignoring people! And I don’t make quick decisions (even if I know what I am gonna do) and I usually don’t talk much in a crowd I listen (people are funny) but now when it is just me and a couple of buddies I talk a-lot. I just don’t give a whole lot of opinion. the best way to be mellow is to learn to wait, and watch. It is really kinda fun, you learn lots of things about people by just being quiet and watching them.

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