A few days ago
Lisa

I need advice on this please?

ok so I go to school ( cosmetology school) with this girl that is loud always calls everyone bit*ches and every other name under the sun. No one likes her and normally I am able to ignore her but yesterday she used this C word that I HATE and she and I pretty much had it out in the class ( non violent). I am pretty sure that 90% of my classmates have complained about her, she make violent threats and is overall not a nice person to be around. I am really considering withdrawing from school. Every night when I get home I am in a bad mood because I have to listen to the garbage that comes out of her mouth for 8 hours. I don’t even want to go in to school today, and that is not like me. What should I do? I feel like I have talked to everyone that cares to listen. I am afraid that if she puts her hands on me I will fight her back and get kicked out of school right along with her. Please I need advice.

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A few days ago
Anonymous

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I would talk to whoever is in charge and let them know if it doesn’t stop you will call the cops on a charge of disturbing the piece. It sounds like everyone would be able to back you up.
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A few days ago
Jennifer B
First take a deep breath. She´s not going to touch you trust me. People like that don´t like confrontation. They like attention. And unfortunately you gave her plenty and so did the glass. Don´t let her get to you. Think of class like your job, you want to appear professional no matter what. You have to be the bigger person, the adult. (Even though you´d just like to punch her in the face) The fact that you think about her at home is just making you miserable not her. So the best way to get back is just to ignore her. Better yet stop caring. Its hard at first but think about who you are and rise above it. Down the road you make work for salon owners or other stylists who are worse. The more you learn to coast through and keep yourself together the better your skill will become. Good luck!
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A few days ago
Puzzler
Ask a couple of other students in the class to go with you to the teacher, or director, or whoever is in charge. Tell them that this girl is seriously disrupting the working and learning atmosphere of the school. Don’t get into a bunch of drama….that won’t impress anyone. Just quietly state your case and let those with you state theirs. The person in charge should take the situation seriously if it is presented in a mature way.
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A few days ago
kaytee3212
Oooh, that is hard, I hate people like that! Is there any way that you can change classes so you dont have to be in there with her? It sould be sad for you to miss out on your dream because of a loud mouth bt. Talk to the instructor, maybe they will kick her butt out the door(how will she act when she gets a job out of school???)! Good luck to you! : )
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A few days ago
petra
Go to whoever runs this school and complain about this person creating a hostile environment. If you possibly can, tape a little sample of her language use. She is creating a hostile environment and ought to be reprimanded. Language like that is extremely unprofessional.
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A few days ago
Jenn
u should not quit b/c of how someone else acts….u need to try either talk to her with no one else around(so she can t try to find someone to be on her side), try to ignore her, or address a higher authority(either in person or by letter)if u need evidence u have plenty of witnesses or two minutes of tape recording sounds more then efficient…..good luck
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