A few days ago
GEISHA

How do you respond to criticism?

My tutor puts me down all the time, he says Im lazy and don’t care about my coursework, however I do, I just don’t understand what he wants me to do. He focuses on what I haven’t done rather what I have. I can’t change tutor either.

He’s a bit of a rubbish tutor, and he’s a mean b too.

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A few days ago
Anonymous

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okay, he sounds like a slob.

i’m a sensitive person but what i would do is just tell him how you feel….don’t let words hurt you.

right now i’m funstrated b/c some racist classmate laughed at me & made fun of me.

what you fear is worser than it already is or what’s going to happen so get that off your chest & blurt it out! then you’ll feel refreshed. if he hurts you physicly & verbally abuses you then tell your mom or dad to fire him! you don’t need him.

you go girl/boy! you can do it.

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A few days ago
Anonymous
If criticism is given in the right way, it can be constructive. If he told you that you were a genious all the time you wouldn’t do any work at all, would you? You’ll find, if you stick with him, that you’ll appreciate him a hell of a lot more once you get the grades you deserve. Hope this helps since you can’t change tutor.
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A few days ago
Cinthia Round house kicking VT
First – don’t get defensive. Second – point out what you have done then ask him what he would suggest so that you can complete what he wants done. It makes him think, puts some responsibility back on him which being your tutor it behooves him to make you succeed.
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A few days ago
Carla R
Well your tutor is definetely not a helpfull person, all you can do is just doing what you think is right or take a day to talk to him or her about this criticism you`re not comfortable with.
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4 years ago
limson
relies upon who does it and how. in the event that they do it harshly, or they’re condescending and sarcastic approximately it, or call me names, then I certainly tend to get offended. i visit nevertheless pay attention to their critique and not brush aside it out of hand, despite the fact that this is harder to do while this is overshadowed via the anger. yet while they do it gently and are available to me greater privately, I cope with it greater appropriate. playstation , i do no longer think of there is any such ingredient as effective or destructive grievance. grievance is grievance, no remember if this is finished tactfully and kindly or coldly and harshly. If there is not any longer something to criticize and somebody does it anyhow, I evaluate that a private attack. >Are you stubborn? open-minded? skeptical? specific to all 3 yet i visit nevertheless pay attention and think of while somebody calls me on something. >Does your habit tend to sell or discourage communicate with those of opposing perspectives? good question. i come across that i’m getting into many greater conversations approximately my perspectives right here on line than I do in actual existence.
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A few days ago
Anonymous
i don’t respond well at first i get cold and defensive but after i think about it i try to apply the criticism
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A few days ago
Kiki!
Yes. I find that nice for people

trying to make eachother

civalized However, he’s not helping you at

all so….yeah.

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A few days ago
porkupine
only take to heart what you know is fair critism ,ignore the reat and do all your hard work for YOURSELF and dont let that useless teacher ruin ur chances.
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A few days ago
rufiboy
A gentle tit for a critical tat!!!
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A few days ago
Dragon’sFire
Depends if it’s constructive, or negative, and if I agree with it!
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